Look at Proverbs 31:26

She opens her mouth in skillful and Godly Wisdom, and on her tongue is the law of kindness (giving counsel and instruction).
The number one thing causing sickness is not what we eat but what we speak. God knows the heart of man so He knows when you have set out to do damage to someone, He knows the intent of the heart... Let the word of God direct your day . Ephesians 4:31 Let all bitterness and indignation and wrath (passion, rage, bad temper) and resentment (anger, animosity) and quarreling (brawling, clamor, contention) and slander (evil speaking, abusive or blasphemous language) be banished from you, with all malice (spite, ill will, or baseness of any kind). If you could take this in deep, stop, I beg of you, for your own safety. You create things to happen against yourself. Your words may also keep some precious soul from the love and nurturing they should receive. Some people may say, "I have no friends ... poor me..., but then anyone they get close to, sooner or later, it starts to look like a lawnmower going through a field, they clear out a path where no one wants to be with them. Because of the words, the lies, they stir trouble everywhere they go. They can never come into peace, joy, and right thinking, Romans 14:17. These people are not to be taken in, they are to be prayed for, that they would receive a true revelation of Eph: 3:14-20, The Love of Christ... how long, how wide, how deep, how high is the Love of Christ! If their life does not reflect Christ, pray for them, do not be taken in by their words.. Love...Love...Love... A Good word is.... "We don't get stirred up by the voice of people, we get stirred up by the voice of God. We desire to pursue peace at all cost... we do our part and He will do the rest. Yes, Yes, Yes!!!

May Christ be what you talk about the most,
Pastor Cindi